I don’t know where or when it started, but sometime or another we decided a woman’s worth was dependent on her relationship status.
We decided if a girl was hot, she must have a boyfriend.
If she didn’t, something was wrong with her. She was inadequate. She was un-dateable.
We were told “all the good ones have boyfriends” and all the rest are crazy. If she couldn’t find a man, it’s because she couldn’t keep one.
Did no one ever think maybe she just didn’t want one?
Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe it’s because she can’t find anyone worthy of her time? Did it ever cross anyone’s mind that the most beautiful women are too good to settle for just anyone?
I don’t know if anyone else has noticed, but it seems the most valuable, beautiful and secure women never have boyfriends. Because when they see couples, all they see is settling — something they will never do.
They won’t be in a relationship for the sake of it and most definitely won’t give in to societal pressures that say they’re better off with a man. They’re strong and secure enough to wait alone for the right one.
It’s the hot ones who don’t need validation through a relationship. It’s the women who are confident enough to know themselves outside of someone else.
And it’s always the hot ones who are judged much more harshly than anyone else.
Because they don’t trust guys’ intentions
Most of the guys they meet are either assh*les, douchebags or looking for something. They’ve had too many bad experiences to fully trust when they’re having a good one.
They’re always waiting for the bottom to drop or the true motives to reveal themselves. It’s hard to meet the people in front of you when you’re always looking behind you and over your shoulder.
Because everyone usually assumes they already have boyfriends
When you see a hot guy, you’re less likely to go up to him because you assume he’s sleeping with some model or taken by someone. You’re less likely to go up to him because you figure there’s more to lose.
The same goes with hot women. If you assume she’s taken, why waste your time talking to her?
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